Whenever we were growing up, no body talked to people about letting our feelings in the future up. No body gave people permission to be truly start and vulnerable and provide ourselves the allowance to be in touch with our feelings.

We were taught how to take care of ourselves, how to endure, how to be much more successful, how to become the most effective, etc. while it is just through an money of making your feelings and acim up that you may be moved beyond everything you are planning and perceiving.

Einstein was the one who discovered that a problem can't be solved from within the situation, you have to go beyond the situation to get the solution. That's what we contact having belief in the Holy Spirit. Confidence that he'll take care of it for you.

You can't wake yourself, but you can allow you to ultimately be awakened.

If you imagine that you will be a small identity, a human anatomy, only a little character, then how can you possibly genuinely believe that you know how to get free from this desire you understand yourself to stay? You would, more likely, get frustrated or suicidal than you'd actually have the hope of escaping from the dream. Your best programs have not brought you peace and happiness. When we are eventually prepared to be told and say, Nature, you display me, you information me, allow me to not try to tell you on the ways to lead me, then we are naturally fishing to the awakening process. As A Course in Miracles claims, “Decide now as your own teacher.” (T-12.V.8.) Decide! Hand in your resignation!

Wanting to always be in charge is a practice of a head that believes it's a human being, a head that believes it is just a “doer.” We should contact it a human “doing” as opposed to a human being. Once you actually cry out for help, with sincerity, Soul is able to use all sorts of symbols to reach you. You merely require the trust and confidence to get free from the driver's chair of thinking that you're personally in charge of waking up from this dream.

A Course In Miracles brings you resources to opposite all fearful thoughts and beliefs. Using these tools makes it possible to find the complete sense of flexibility and peace you've always been yearning for.